Saturday, June 13, 2015

Low libido at the beginning of Porn Addiction Abstinence

Why does our libido decreases at the beginning of Porn Addiction Abstinence? 


When we will notice the huge decrease of libido in very first week of our therapy, it means that everything is going in the right way. Most of us suffers on lack of morning erections and complain that they have no "morning wood". This is a perfect sign that the therapy process is properly and your brain starts to clear out of pornography. During many years you have seen thousands of naked girls, in few days you have seen more girls than a guy 50 years ago during his whole life! Soo, your brain needs now a lot of time to forget about this scenes and starts to clean up. Actual, you have a reduced tolerance on any sexual stimulations and you need more and more stimulation to get an orgasm. You are addicted to dopamine, and it works very similarly like addiction to drugs,
nicotine, alcohol and others like gambling, internet, games. All of this addictions are strongly associated with dopamine production which floods the brain.

Abstinence of pornography and also masturbation is breaking this scheme. It is recommended to continue in abstinence for 3-9 months. After about 90 days everything begins to change. However, some of the people who take abstinence of PMO never returns to their old behaviors and habits. They are changing the masturbation on real sexual relationship with woman. I think that is the best what can happen!

After this 90 days your brain starts to decrease tolerance on stimulation sources, and it will have a possitive effect on your erections. They come back again to you. It is not a decrease of your sexual standards but it's a way to return on your natural sexuality.

When you don't feel decrease of libido in your first days of abstinence there is something wrong. Maybe you aren't consistent enough in your abstinence. You have to change your attitude and you can't count your "green days".

Green day - is a day without pornography and masturbation

You can only write a date of your start somewhere but don't count every single day.

The first days of the abstinence is a period of time which is called "flat line". Your hormons need 2 weeks to stabilize after last orgasm, but the high level of dopamine can maintain on the high level for 3 weeks.

Don't buy and madications. It is a bullshit and you have to know that doctors often say "you have to buy tablets.", because they don't know the scale of problem. This pills can't cure us, because it doesn't work on the main cause of the problem which is masturbation to porn. I will write article about Erectile dysfunction and medication use. Summin up, I think that the trade of drugs for potency is a bullshit which makes a giant money. They don't want to cure anyone, they only want our money!

Today I have 7 green days of my abstinence, I will write some about my progress when I will pass the first month.

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